Hidden Gems: Fog of Love

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Game: Fog of Love
Players: 2
Try it if you like: Consenticle, Dungeons & Dragons

In Fog of Love there are no winners, and there are no losers. It’s a cooperative game for two players, but there is no traditional end-game objective besides wrapping up the relationship you form throughout the game. In this game the goal is to tell a compelling story of a made-up relationship between your and your partner’s characters.

Billed on the box as a ‘Romantic Comedy as a Board Game,’ it really can be boiled down to that at its most simplistic. Both players create a character, give them a name, come up with as much or as little backstory as they like, and play out various sweet, serious, and dramatic scenes that could occur over the course of their relationship. Scenes can be funny, like asking your partner what’s the most embarrassing thing they’ve ever done in front of a group of people; or they can be awkward, like when you go for a photoshoot together and both want to be the big spoon while posing. You’ll need to make mature decisions, like whether or not you should open a joint bank account; and confront difficult situations, like why you were texting or hanging out with your ex.

Based on your chosen occupation (Baker, Politician, Internet Seller, and dozens more) and the features which first drew your partner to you (Bedroom Eyes, Stoner, Wheelchair, Hairy, and heaps of others), you’ll begin the game with a few personality indicators. These will note whether you’re more outgoing or shy, more adventurous or withdrawn, more organised or reckless, and other such personality types.

Every action you take, every decision you make, basically every scene that plays out will affect your personality, your affection level to your partner, or both. Whether your relationship is smooth sailing or crashing over rocky shores, the game continues until the final scene has been played in the chapter. There can be several outcomes to the game ranging from the couple staying together in a mutually happy and respectful partnership to having a messy, dramatic break-up, to the relationship persisting even though only one of you is happy in it.

There are 4 separate stories to play out in the base set (our copy includes the expansion, kicking that up to 7), but there is so much more replayability than just those 4 playthroughs. Featuring a plethora of scenes, occupations, physical features, and personality traits, you could play through the same story time after time with new characters and come away each play through with vastly different experiences and relationships.

I’ve seen a bunch of takes on Fog of Love during my internet searching, and your mileage may definitely vary. Some folks reckon it’s a game that should only be played by couples in a committed relationship, while others insist they hated playing with their real-life partner because they had to act so differently, according to their characters’ wants and not their own.

Personally, I see Fog of Love as an excellent primer for more in-depth tabletop gaming such as Dungeons & Dragons. Think of it as D&D-lite, but with dating. Dinner & Drinks, if you will.

Just like with D&D, you’re working your way through a story and making your own decisions. The scene cards will often give you prompts, then leave the nitty gritty of the story to your imagination. When you create a character, what’s their name? Are they a simple Reggie, or a sophisticated Reginald P. Shoemaker III? They work as a Teacher, but what do they teach? Maths or science? Primary school or university? Sign language or swimming? The game sets it up, but you as the player have the opportunity to give it as much depth as you want.

I’m a casual D&D player with no experience DMing, partly due to my lack of confidence in improvising story as I go along. Playing Fog of Love immediately struck me as an incredible tool to work on those improvisational skills. I fumbled my way through the tutorial with my wife, and admittedly I wasn’t super happy with some of my own character explanations, but those stumbles and hiccups helped me learn how I can approach a situation better in the future.

Similarly, if you’ve been interested in trying D&D but haven’t made the leap into actually trying it out (like with our monthly TableTop Tuesdays, for example), Fog of Love offers a great environment for just you and a friend to try some lighter role-playing without the pressure of being in a large group where you may feel more self-conscious.

Regardless of whether your interests extend into tabletop RPGs, this game is certainly worth playing at least twice (I say twice because the tutorial is an excellent primer for the full game, but once you’ve played through it you should absolutely go one more round with a longer story once you’re familiar with the mechanics) just for the entertainment factor. Even when my character made decisions I wasn’t entirely happy with, my wife and I still shared some good laughs due to the situations we found ourselves in.

Whether you play through a story with your partner at the end of a busy day to relax or bust it out at a games day with friends for others to watch the love story unfold as your audience, Fog of Love will certainly give you some memorable stories to recount.

Alert level 2 (again)

Looks like level three was just the seven days as advertised. This means we’ll be open as usual (with the regular level two restrictions) from Sunday the 7th of March

Hope to see you all back again soon!

Alert Level 3 Update (The return)

It was a short lockdown last time. Hopefully it’ll be just a little bit longer this time.

At level 3 Cakes n Ladders can sell takeaway food/drinks and board games as long as it is contactless. Unfortunately our in store board game library is out of bounds until level 2 or lower. here is a list of the games we currently have for sale. We can either courier them out to you or you can pick them up in store on Wednesday 03/03/21 between noon and 3pm. If you’re in the mood while you’re there you can also get a takeaway coffee/tea/hot chocolate.

We’ll also be delaying our Total Party Kill event which was scheduled to run on Tuesday 02/03/21 See this post here.

We can also order games in (for pickup or delivery) though most suppliers use the Auckland ports/warehouses so they will be observing level 3 protocols which makes things safe but adds delays.

Take care everyone and we’ll get through this, just like we did last time.

Alert level 3 announcement
What alert level 3 means for Cakes n Ladders

Welcome to 2021!

Well everyone, 2021 has the potential to be even better than 2020. It isn’t exactly a high bar to clear and helping us get there Cakes n Ladders is open from today the 6th of January.

Whatever your 2020 looked like and however you celebrated the end of 2020 we hope to see you back now we’re open and ready for business!

Upcoming Events (November-December 2020)

Lockdown is behind us (again!), and we’ve been back in business proper (again). We’re now looking forward to more upcoming events! We’ll be releasing more information for each of these events as they get closer, but for now we just wanted to give everyone a brief look at what we’re currently planning.

Feature Friday
Feature Fridays have been a recurring weekly event at Cakes n Ladders for a while now, and we plan to keep them going, but they’ll be happening when we’ve got something we’re excited to share, like the next one happening this week, on 20th of November! Check here for more information about Feature Friday.

TPK Tuesday
Another favourite is Total Party Kill Tuesdays. These low-commitment RPG one-shots were always well received, but obviously had to be put on hold during the COVID-19 lockdown. We’re happy to announce that TPK Tuesdays are back in action. New and returning adventurers alike can look forward to the next session on 2 December. This will be our final TPK for 2020 so expect some festivities. More details on TPK Tuesdays can be found here.

Any dates, times, and events are all subject to change, especially as this year has been anything but predictable, but we’re going to try our best to bring these and more fun events to Cakes n Ladders to keep you entertained throughout the latter half of the year. Thank you as always for your continued support!

Alert level 2 (part 2)

We’ve played a lot of games in our bubble during the second lockdown but we’re super excited to be heading back to level two and Cakes n Ladders being able to open again.

We’ll be in the cafe on Saturday the 30th of August setting up for level two so if you wanted to get a sneaky contactless boardgame purchase in before we open up again on Wednesday 02/09/20 then drop by between noon and 4pm

Hope to see you all back again soon!

Alert Level 3 Update (Part 2)

Now we know what lockdown part two looks like we can plan how to get through it safely and with our sanity intact

At level 3 Cakes n Ladders can sell takeaway food/drinks and board games as long as it is contactless. Unfortunately our in store board game library is out of bounds until level 2 or lower. Here is a list of the games we currently have for sale. We can either courier them out to you or you can pick them up in store on Sunday 16/08/20 between 11am and 5pm. If you’re in the mood while you’re there you can also get a takeaway coffee/tea/hot chocolate.

We can also order games in (for pickup or delivery) though most suppliers use the Auckland ports/warehouses so they will be observing level 3 protocols which makes things safe but adds delays.

Take care everyone and we’ll get through this, just like we did last time.

Alert level 3 announcement
What alert level 3 means for Cakes n Ladders

Upcoming Events (July-August 2020)

Lockdown is behind us (hopefully for good!), and we’ve been back in business proper for over a month now. After successfully pulling off our own International TableTop Day festivities, we’re now looking forward to more upcoming events! We’ll be releasing more information for each of these events as they get closer, but for now we just wanted to give everyone a brief look at what we’re currently planning.

Feature Friday
Feature Fridays have been a recurring weekly event at Cakes n Ladders for a while now, and we plan to keep them going, but they’ll be moving from weekly events to fortnightly, with the next one happening this week, on 17 July! Check here for more information about Feature Friday. During the off weeks for Feature Friday we’re looking into starting a new fortnightly event…

Teacher Friday
We’ve got such a massive library of games that it’s inevitable some will be played more than others, and it’s honestly a shame to see some amazing games be neglected because they’re perhaps less popular, or their rules take longer to wrap your head around. Enter: Teacher Fridays. We’ll aim to spotlight these games, putting an emphasis on learning new games that aren’t played often, if ever. The first Teacher Friday will be Friday 24 July, where we will be teaching the delightful co-op game of burnination and consummate V’s, Trogdor!! The Board Game. Keep watch on our social media for more details to come!

TPK Tuesday
Another returning favourite will be Total Party Kill Tuesdays. These low-commitment RPG one-shots were always well received, but obviously had to be put on hold during the COVID-19 lockdown. We’re happy to announce that TPK Tuesdays will be back in action from next month. New and returning adventurers alike can look forward to the next session on 4 August. More details on TPK Tuesdays can be found here.

International Cat Day
Some of you might be familiar with our dedicated Cat Shelf, packed to the brim with cat-inspired games. We’re feline excited to make the most of those games next month to celebrate International Cat Day. This purrfect holiday falls on a Saturday this year, 8 August, so we’ll be highlighting the games on that shelf (and others that won’t fit!) all weekend. We’re talking Meow, Action Cats, Purrrlock Holmes, Rat-a-Tat Cat, Exploding Kittens, Cat Capers, and even a special Feature Friday of The Isle of Cats. Mark it on your calendar right meow!

Winter Onesieland
That’s right, one of our favourite annual traditions is coming back once again. As in past years we’ll be offering special discounts for anyone who comes in to game on the weekend of 15-16 August wearing a onesie, so make sure you’ve picked your cosiest and comfiest for the occasion! More details to come soon.

Cakes n Ladders turns 5!
Save the date! We at Cakes n Ladders will be celebrating our 5th birthday on 27 August, so keep your eyes peeled for more information to come about our birthday celebrations the weekend that follows (29-30 August)!

Any dates, times, and events are all subject to change, especially as this year has been anything but predictable, but we’re going to try our best to bring these and more fun events to Cakes n Ladders to keep you entertained throughout the latter half of the year. Thank you as always for your continued support!

Get ready for International TableTop Day!

Once a year International Tabletop Day brings us back to the table to remind us why we play and to give thanks to those who make every roll of the dice exciting.

Perhaps more needed this year than in any other year International TableTop Day (ITTD) is a time to set the worries of the world aside and join with your community to enjoy the comradery found by gathering around a table and playing games!

Find the details here but all you really need to know is that on the fourth of July from 10am Cakes n Ladders is hosting the biggest board game event of the year.

Quarantine Begins

As you are no doubt aware, New Zealand is now at alert level 3, and is moving to alert level 4 within the next 48 hours. This means all bars and restaurants must close now, and all other non-essential services must close within 48 hours.

This is the right call for New Zealand as a whole, and we can work together to come out safe and happy afterwards. After 48 hours have passed, so around 2:00 PM on Wednesday, we cannot sell, loan, or rent board games so as to prevent transmission.

To prepare for the extended shutdown we will be in-store today (24/03/20) sorting things out, and WILL be able to sell games to keep your mind occupied, including several that have solo-player modes. Once we’re finished securing the shop we MAY be able to deliver a few purchased board games to those who can’t come to us. Drop us a line and we’ll see what we can do.

We will be ensuring that we maintain distance and hygiene during this single day of sales, and trust that we will all come out the other side of this having grown more appreciative of the company of others and the simple joy of spending time with friends over a board game.

Once level 4 begins we will cease trading and instead start working on a role-playing game designed to be played while maintaining physical distance, but keeping the social contact that communities need to thrive. We are also looking into hosting online game sessions and podcasting our journey through owning a board game cafe.

Take care everyone. We look forward to re-opening once things are under control, and seeing you all return safe and sound.